Your Triumphs

 

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“Attitude. That is your tendency to evaluate things based on your perception. If you think you can’t, that is a negative attitude parcel and opening it will reveal what you believe”
Israelmore Ayivor

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In my experience, powerless people have one thing in common – they love to use the word ‘can’t‘. They have used it so often that they do not even notice it anymore….. but “can’t” is a limiting word.

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When ‘can’t’ is used, all progress and creativity stops. You are saying that there is no other solution and that is the way it is going to be.

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What is interesting about “can’t” is that it does not really mean anything on its own. It is merely a shortcut for three possible meanings:

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I Don’t Want to …

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“I can’t go to the concert tonight.” = “I don’t want to go to the concert tonight, I would rather stay home and relax.”

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I Don’t Know How….

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“I can’t speak Russian.” = “I don’t know how to speak Russian.”

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I Don’t Believe I Can …

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“I can’t lose weight.” = “Even though I know the ways for losing weight and I want to lose it, I don’t believe I can lose weight.”

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If you are not where you want to be, ask yourself why not? If your answer contains “can’t“, is it because you don’t want to, you don’t know how to or you don’t believe you can.

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Start to become more aware of your use of “can’t” and try to begin replacing it with the real meaning

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If you don’t want to, then that is fine because that is your choice. If you don’t know how, you can choose to learn. The simplest one of the three to overcome is if you don’t believe you can because all you have to do is change your belief which takes about one second and can be done without getting up from your chair.

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Remember there is really no such thing as “can’t“. Remove “can’t” from your vocabulary today and start to make progress in turning your dreams into possibilities.

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“Never say that you can’t do something, or that something seems impossible, or that something can’t be done, no matter how discouraging or harrowing it may be; human beings are limited only by what we allow ourselves to be limited by: our own minds. We are each the masters of our own reality; when we become self-aware to this: absolutely anything in the world is possible.”
Mike Norton