In Your Hands


“It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.”
J.K. Rowling

Life is full of hard choices, and the bigger they are and the more options we have, the harder they get.

Our life is shaped by the choices we make. You are the one who chooses how to live your life and create your life’s path. Your first step is to choose the type of life you want. Remember you ultimately make the choice.

Making conscious choices means that you first need to identify them and also realise that every choice has a consequence – and so does not making the choice.

Stand back and analyse your options and the consequences. Weighing up the pros and cons of every option. Making a choice that meet and enhances your goals.

Do what is right for you. This can be hard to determine sometimes when you are weighing all of the options and getting various words of advice, but ultimately you have to focus on yourself. Tune everything else out and really ask yourself,?“What is the right choice for me? “.


Remember to choose to love yourself, you will be more demanding of yourself also, because everyone wants to love someone they admire. If you are not the most important thing in your life, you will not be doing anybody else a favour either. Take your life seriously. It is the only one, or the only one of its kind, that you will ever get. It could be so-so, it could be fulfilling, or it could be truly great. Which would you prefer?

Choose to make your life great…starting today.

“You have to choose your own destiny. You have to choose your own path in life.”
Lailah Gifty Akita

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