A Victor





”If it’s never our fault, we can’t take responsibility for it. If we can’t take responsibility for it, we’ll always be its victim.”
Richard Bach

One big problem a lot of people have is that they slip into thinking of themselves as victims that have little or no control over their lives. In this mindset you feel sorry for yourself, the world seems to be against you and you get stuck. Little to no action is taken and you get lost in a funk of sadness and self-pity. Do not let your struggle become your identity.

You are only a victim of the rules and beliefs you live by. Choose to have positive thoughts that empower you. Wisen up and take responsibility for your life. There is really no way around it.

Try to stop relying on external validation like praise from other people to feel good about yourself. Instead you start building a stability within and a sort of inner spring that fuels your life with positive emotions no matter what other people say or do around you.

Remember there is no need to be perfect to inspire others. Let people get inspired by how you deal with your imperfections. You feel so much better about yourself even if you only take personal responsibility for your own life for a day.

Put yourself in yourself into a positive and empowered mindset today…..Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start focusing on how you can make the most of the situation you are in right now.

“Your complaints, your drama, your victim mentality, your whining, your blaming, and all of your excuses have NEVER gotten you even a single step closer to your goals or dreams. Let go of your nonsense. Let go of the delusion that you DESERVE better and go EARN it! Today is a new day!”
Steve Maraboli



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