. “Responsibility finds a way. Irresponsibility makes excuses!” Gene Bedley It is with hindsight that we tend see that we are totally responsible for our life. Blame and excuses are the hallmarks of an unsuccessful life. . People who take complete responsibility for their lives experience control of circumstances. They are able to make … More Taking Responsibility

  . ”You are defined by your actions, not by your circumstances.’’ If we are in search for a definition of who we really are, we so often realise that we are not defined by the situation we are in, we are defined by the actions we stay constantly committed to each day. . Those … More With Your Actions

  . ”Tell me how a person judges his or her self-esteem and I will tell you how that person operates at work, in love, in sex, in parenting, in every important aspect of existence – and how high he or she is likely to rise. The reputation you have with yourself – your self-esteem … More Positive Improvement

  .   If you feel lost, disappointed, hesitant, or weak, turn to yourself. To who you really are, and when you start to understand more and to discover yourself, like a lily flower in full bloom, even in a muddy pool. You find you are more beautiful and stronger than you realise. . I … More You Are Beautiful

  . “Our way of thinking creates good or bad outcomes.” Stephen Richards . Quite often, people dwell on what they do nit have and complain why they do not have what they want. And the more they do that, the more they perpetuate the same. Remember, like attracts like. . If you want to … More What You Think

  . ‘‘You cannot change what you refuse to confront.” . Our lives are full of opportunities, but sometimes too much thinking can get in the way. Changing our life for the better is about choosing a destination and taking one step at a time to get there. Getting serious about making improvements is a … More A Change For The Better

  . “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.” Henry Winkler No matter our age or experience, effective communication is a skill we can learn. The greatest leaders of all time are also fantastic communicators. . There is a time and a place for everything, and communicating is no different…..Avoid leaving discussions about heavy topics such … More Effective Communication

  . ‘‘It may come as a severe shock if you haven’t given much thought to this subject before, but our precious, cast-in-stone, objective beliefs are often totally in contrast to any reality. Or, more accurately, they are our perception of reality, rather than reality itself.” Robert White What you perceive to be true and … More Is It True?

  . ”I wonder how many people don’t get the one they want, but end up with the one they’re supposed to be with.” Fannie Flagg . Think about something that you really want to work out. Do you trust that it will? The truth is that things always work out in the end. I … More Supposed To Be

  . ‘‘We can choose how we want to feel, by choosing how we behave. We feel the way we behave. So if you don’t like the way you feel, then change your behavior.” Thomas D. Willhite . Over time I have come to realise that feeling miserable is our own choice. It is the result … More A Positive Influrence